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Correspondence of the founder of psychoanalysis with family members shows that [b] Freud [/b] wasn't a misogynist at all as many think. He loved the wife and daughters, close communicated with children, and his family differed from other
Siegmund Freud's letters to children (1907–1939). Unpublished correspondence and Correspondence of 1904-1938 of Siegmund Freud and Anna Freud change the settled view of Freud. These books didn't appear in Russian yet, but are already published in
And thanks to them we see not the severe scientist, but the acute man with live sense of humour and the enthusiastic father who soon after the birth of the oldest daughter Matilda writes:My baby remarkably develops, and at night unconcernedly sleeps, than any father can be proud!

Freud called children by the names of people dear to him. For example, Matilda (1887-1978) was called in honor of the wife of Josef Breyer, the colleague and the close friend Freud. And the eldest son Jean Martin (1889-1967) received a name of the outstanding neurologist Jean Martin Sharko together with which Freud studied in Paris. By nickname Olya (1891-1969) reminded a name of the average son Olivier of Freud's hobby for the English commander and lord protector Oliver for
The younger son Ernst (1892-1966) became the namesake of the physiologist Ernst Bryukke — professors of the University of Vienna which supported Freud at the beginning of his career. The average daughter Sofie (1893-1920) was called in honor of the wife of the close friend of the grandfather, the father
Younger Anna (1895-1982), most likely, is obliged by the name to the daughter of the favourite teacher of Hebrew
Sofie was famous for beauty, and here Matilda's appearance didn't cause great delights. She liked to read and listen to the opera, she highly appreciated the ideas of the father and itself dreamed of research activity for which, alas, wasn't enough for her
In the footsteps of the father younger and more firm daughter Anna managed to go. However she had to fight for the right to become his schoolgirl and to gain recognition from his lips:growing old, he will name her the Antigone, a name of the daughter of the Thebes tsar of
Freud not bad coped with a fatherly role. At least, if we accept psychoanalytic definition of the good father

Freud didn't insist on that all six of his offsprings became psychoanalysts. Martin became the lawyer. Olya — on the engineer, but he had to face psychoanalysis when diagnosed obsessivny neurosis for him close. Ernst became a
It is possible to tell that Freud not bad coped with a fatherly role. At least, if we accept psychoanalytic definition of the good father:this is such person who is capable to establish authority, to set reference points, respecting at the same time identity of the children and allowing them to develop in own way.

NEITHER MORALS, NOR TABOO

From fall to spring Freud worked tirelessly from dawn to a decline. He accepted patients or retired to the office to reflect and keep records, silent, with an eternal cigar in a mouth. However in the summer all family gathered in a country house, and family relations were reestablished.

Numerous letters demonstrate that all family Freud was extremely carried away by mountains, the woods, the nature and its
Children didn't join directly in fatherly occupations, but also weren't completely aside:they were familiar with most of his colleagues and patients. Freud imposed nothing to the offsprings, they naturally joined a father's therapeutic method. In the childhood Martin very much was proud of the fact that he the eldest son of Siegmund Freud.

According to early letters it is visible that Freud treats children as to the young adults allocated with identity ready to a marriage or a
From the father of any morals, any taboo subjects. Talking to daughters about health, Freud doesn't hesitate to mention periods and to describe a sore body in his most unattractive
The respect doesn't stir frankness — he explains to Mathilde that his many students and patients dream to marry her because of the transfer mechanism:the emotional connection which arises between the patient and the therapist forces them to have a tender affection for his daughter. So she shouldn't build
His generosity has in a basis confidence that his children don't need anything

In 1912 Freud writes Sofie's groom, the photographer Max Halbershtadtu, with unusual sense of humour peculiar to him:My little Sofie returned pacified, happy, without shadow of doubts, and told that she became engaged to you. We understood that we remain nothing else except how to make formalities and to give the blessing. Our only desire always was that daughters gave love according to the free choice, as well as I arrived our senior so we can only be glad to this event.

Freud expresses opinion on the choice of the children, but never dares to forbid or constrain their desires. He is able to accept heat of their spouses so those never feel like second-grade family members.

To keep together — here the motto of Freud who helps him to remain calm and collected at the heaviest moments, during a disease or Nazi threat. To children he almost always writes in the letters we or I and mother. And it is decisive blow to the theory according to which Freud was a patriarchal misogynist and didn't put in anything the wife to
He gives financial support to the children and grandsons, even already adult if they are left without work or him there isn't enough money for treatment. Freud most hadn't enough support at the time of study and at the beginning of professional career, and he wants to help the children. In it there is no sense of superiority. His faultless generosity has in a basis that knowledge of the Jewish father which to him is necessary as the breath of life both in life, and in death — confidence that his children don't need anything.

When in 1920 I died of influenzal pneumonia of Sofie, Freud lost desire to live. He couldn't forget the daughter and stored her portrait in a medallion. But three years later he was comprehended by new loss — his beloved grandson to
Freud came to despair because there was no uniform human being, and especially — the child which would be as expensive to him as this boy.

Freud regularly wrote spouses of the children and kept in touch with Max Halbershtadtom to the most death. In November, 1928 he, already old and sick person, writes the son Ernst:For me was precious experience to understand how it is possible to gather at own children much.

Anna, only daughter

The unwanted child, Anna was born in one year with psychoanalysis — in the 1895th. And subsequently I made everything to become irreplaceable for the father who didn't want her birth.

Recently the dream dreamed me that you were a king, and I the princess and between us was war — she wrote the father in August, 1915. Whether it was an echo of an Oedipus complex when the daughter wants to overcome rival mother? Eventually Freud called Anna of the only daughter.

In unpublished correspondence of the father and daughter the professional spirit is felt. Anna became the first woman in family which received a profession:she studied as the school teacher. In 1918 she begins to pass the analysis at the
According to many today's experts, this practice borders on an incest. But we won't forget that at that time it was an everyday occurrence. The first analysts analyzed the children, spouses,
Psychoanalysis allowed Anna to realize that her libido is directed to women. The inventor of the revolutionary theory of sexuality Freud was horrified by a thought that his daughter — the lesbian. To avert her from this tendency which frightened also Anna Freud encourages her intellectual
Eventually with assistance of the father Anna became the chief children's psychoanalyst of the Vienna school and life with the girlfriend Dorothy
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